I have a serious issue of trust and verbal abuse from her which takes place almost every week. The insults emanate from calls that I receive and whatsapp chats. Look at the picture, whenever I receive call, even on a plain terms without any strings with any female she just concludes its one of my numerous side chicks. Same goes for whatsapp chats, such as casual chats from female colleagues, business chats, compliments turns out an issue.
Whenever she snoops through my phone (which she does routinely especially when I'm asleep and I also give her access to it) and starts trouble, I calm down and respectfully explain to her my relationship with my correspondence.
The issue is, in her anger and despite my detailed explanations (of which I have gone extra mile to call the females in her presence to clear the air), she says words that demoralises me emotionally;, she often threatens to leave me or not settle down with me. Painfully she always reminds me that men will always come after her because of her beauty and qualities.
NB: I gave her access to my house, she spends most times in my house even in my absence. I gave her access to an extent that she has a spare key. Most weekdays, I close from work and meet her in my house, I equally spend all day with her alone during weekends. Please tell me what to do, her words makes me feel less than myself, I'm seriously hurt and confused. Any little misunderstanding is normally amplified to an abusive point by her''.
Emeka.
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