Wednesday, January 11, 2017

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If you marry a jealous spouse, your marriage is bound to be in trouble

A  marriage counsellor, Mrs Ola Madari has advised youngsters who are due for marriage not to marry jealous spouses. Madari, the coordinator of the Family Victory Marriage Counselling Home, said that a partner who possesses the said attribute may later become an abuser.

She said in an interview that eliminating the feelings of jealousy may be difficult after marriage. “Jealousy is one of the greatest destroyer of relationships and marriages, and the reason is that it creates feelings of anger and frustration in the one who is being accused of infidelity. “Jealousy is like poison and it already dwells in the blood; if one of the partners possesses it, there won’t be trust. “In case you are in a relationship and the man doesn’t trust you or he does not believe in whatever you tell him, please flee from such a man. “If you marry a jealous spouse, your marriage is bound to be in trouble because there will be feelings of frustration and worry. “Maintaining a healthy marital relationship is like tending to a garden; it needs lots of attention, but a jealous spouse will not raise a healthy and happy crop,” she said. Madari also advised that marriage should be based on trust, not on fear, frustration or worry. She, however, advised those who are married to jealous spouses to seek marriage therapists, who will counsel them on how to handle the issues.

Tanzanian artiste allegedly beaten to death by husband

A female Tanzanian artiste reportedly died last week after she was allegedly brutalized by her husband.
Read the report according to edaily below
   

 "Kijakazi Pazi Shaban, who was once a member of Kidedea music group, and known by her stage name Zamzam, died at her home in Musoma. 

    Her husband, a police officer, Hamad Ally took Shaban’s body to a morgue in Temeke, Dar es Salaam after she succumbed to her injuries. 

    Sad news about Zamzam’s death reached us, and we were informed that she died as a result of stomach ulcers. Her husband then said he would bury her in Kilimanjaro area.

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It was Not Easy After Wizkid Disvirgined And Impregnated Me at 19- Wizkid first baby mama

Sola Ogudugu, Wizkid's baby mama has shared her experience on discovering that she was pregnant  for Nigerian singer, Ayo Balogun popularly called Wizkid.

In an interview with YNaija, Ogudugu revealed the ordeal she passed through after Wizkid disvirgined and impregnated her at 19. Sola disclosed that she only found out she was pregnant after the pregnancy had reached 5 months.

She said: “I remember the day I found out I was pregnant! After 5 monthsss… Damn!!! I can’t believe I’m laughing now. I cried for the remaining 4 months… I just kept saying to myself everyday ‘God why me’ Ahhhhh mahn… ThoseWereTryingTimes! It was like film trick…”

Court dissolves 16-year-old union over unmatched genotype

An Ilorin Area Court  today dissolved the marriage between Aminat and Tunji Ajise.

Aminat, a resident of Balogun Fulani Area, Ilorin, asked the court to dissolve her marriage to Ajise over unmatched genotype and lack of care.

She said that their marriage was contracted in year 2000 and had produced three children of which one has sickle cell genotype.

“My husband abandoned me and the children since he got to know that our first child has sickle cell genotype; he refuses to give me and my children money and food.

“My lord, I am tired of his nonchalant attitude; he has shown me that he does not need me and his children anymore,” Aminat told the court.

The plaintiff added that the defendant abandoned her and his children to move in with another woman since January 2016.

“My Lord, I want an end to this marriage because I can’t continue to hurt my emotion over an irresponsible husband,” she said.

The defendant, who did not object to the prayer of his wife, told the court “she is free to go.”

The presiding judge, Mr. Ibrahim AbdulKadri, dissolved the marriage and issued a certificate of divorce to the plaintiff.

NAN