For some weeks now i have being having a tight schedule, that is why i have not being able to write an article. please pardon me dear readers. Today am writing about quarreling in marriage.I will start by saying if any couple whether married or not say they don't quarrel at one point or the other, then the person is a ''big liar''Even the couple that have celebrated there silver or golden jubilee will tell you that it is not an easy thing to keep a marriage going.This brings me to the question if is right or wrong for couples to quarrel, infact the answer is “YES!” When a husband and wife quarrel, they are engaging in a perfectly normal and expected part of marriage. In fact, disagreement between two people in love is actually healthy for their relationship. To quarrel is NOT the question! The question is be, “Why do you quarrel and how frequent is your quarrel and how long does it take you guys to make up?. Infact a lady once told me that her best time for making love with her boy friend is after quarreling.Quarreling with your spouse will still make you to know more about him or her.
My 22-year old fiancee who came to my place just a day ago got a call from her family doctor that her attention was urgently needed prior to some tests that were conducted on her two days back. I had to tell her to go see her doctor immediately as it could be something very important, so she left.
She called me up some hours later to tell me her doctor says she's HIV positive. My head spun and I started thinking of where I must had gotten it from. We've been intimately together for 4years, and we make love as often as we feel like although our busy schedule hasn't made us see for up to a month now.
As I got the news, I felt so restless and just had to go join her at the hospital so they could carry a test to confirm my status. It came out negative. I promised her to always be by her side and wouldn't leave her cos of the disease. I trust her a lot and I believe she must have contracted it through sharp objects her makeup business exposes her to like razor blades.
Dear readers, I need your advice. It's 3am in the morning, and she's called thrice already; she's depressed and suicidal right now. Pls air your matured and helpful opinion. God bless you.
Read the top two responses he got from his friends:
"Comfort her. Let her know that her illness doesn't define or change who she is. Not only that but it's 2016 and with the advances in medicine she can live a long normal life, so she shouldn't worry.
Also you can take precautions so you can still have s*x but will NOT be affected. So there is nothing to worry about as long as you both are responsible. Most importantly let her know that your love for her will not change and you will get through this together. The most important part is for her to understand that having HIV doesn't make her any less than anyone else. We are all human, we all bleed the same. Even with HIV her blood is still the same color as yours, no?"
The second commenter has this to say:
"Just because you did a test for three or five days later and found out you are negative may not mean you are, you need to take the test in the next three month and finally in the next six month to finally confirm you as negative.
Comedian Ushbebe and wife Anette Nuagbe, who welcomed a baby boy last week, March 15, 2016 had an intimate naming ceremony for their son who has been christened Nolan yesterday, Tuesday, March 22, 2016.
The ceremony had in attendance close family and friends and this picture of Olamide cradling the baby who is his Godson.
Today is the celebrity couple 3rd wedding anniversary and annie took to social media to write a sweet message to her husband, says that she will never leave him. read below
A newly married Indian teenager has divorced her husband just two weeks after she married him because she discovered he was impotent and could not perform in bed.
The 18-year-old bride from Katna village in Murshidabad, West Bengal state, found out about his impotent state on the night of their wedding, and immediately demanded a divorce and refund of her dowry.
According to reports, the girl's family who supported her asked that the divorce be fast-tracked in order not to ruin the girl's reputation with other suitors in the future. The family said they do not want their daughter to be branded barren after marrying a man who cannot impregnate a woman.
The 18-year-old reportedly asked the family of her husband, from Burdwan district in West Bengal, to return the dowry: 55,000 rand (£2,547) in cash as well as assets worth the same amount.
'On our wedding night, I realised that my husband has erectile dysfunction,' the 18-year-old told Times of India.
'In our village, marriages have broken up earlier. But no girl has ever cited impotence as a reason.'
It is believed the groom's family had wanted the woman to give their son sometime by continuing in the marriage, but the woman refused. The groom and his family have now been compelled to pay the dowry after the bride won the case in a family court.
A local court ruled in the teenager's favour and the groom's family will be paying back the entire dowry in cash - 110,000 rand (£5,090)
Unless you are really not feeling it or constantly vigilant, much like sneezing, kissing is nigh on impossible to with your eyes open.
Up until now, you've probably accepted it as 'just one of those things'. After all, who wants to get overly-analytical about kissing?
But as a study on vision and tactile sensory experience carried out by Royal Holloway, University of London revealed, there is one very good reason why we do it.
Simply put, our brains can't handle it.
Or, as the study more scientifically concluded, our grey matter struggles to process another sense while also concentrating on the visual stimuli - so looking at the object of our affections while kissing them.
However, before you sign up for any future studies on the same topic, it was in fact conducted without people kissing.
Instead, participants had to do visual tests while their response to something touching their hands was measured.
The tests involved letter-searching tasks which varied in difficulty, the Independent reported, and their response to a small vibration being applied to one of their hands was measured.
Academics Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy, from the university, shared their findings in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance.
What did it mean for kissing?
Apparently, participants were less responsive to the sense of touch as their eyes did more work.
So for other activities necessitating a tactile sense - like kissing, dancing and sex - people tend to want to focus on touch, rather than have visual distractions.
It means we can concentrate our energy on the task at hand, and give it one hundred per cent of our effort.
And having been evolved this way for millions of years, it would be a bit off-putting to change now.
