4 Reasons Why ladies Should Marry An Emotionally Complex Man

 Of all the types of guys you might ever end up with in this world, you could do a lot worse than the emotionally complex one. It might be cool to hook up with a straight-shooting, ‘what-ya-see-is-what-ya-get’ kind of fella, but in the end, well… what you see is what you get, you know?

Most ladies want a man who has an emotional factory behind his eyes and heart. Because when grown men are busy churning out thoughts, ideas and questions about the very life they are living, and how they feel about that life, then you can be sure of a few good things.

Here’s what Huffingtonpost.com says the emotionally complex man:

1. He’s a listener

If you ever meet a guy who can sit across from you at a dinner table or next to you in a bar and actually listen to you speak, don’t let him go. Emotionally complex guys have arrived at a place in their lives when they realise that the most important thing they can ever offer a potential partner is to just sit there and listen closely when someone very important is speaking to them. Answers, solutions, advice: those things are all well and good but in the end, most wise and sensitive fellas know that merely listening to the woman across from them is the coolest quality any man can ever possess. It’s also one of the rarest. 

2. He’s hurt, been hurt, and owns it all

Some people still think that it’s better for men to have very little happening when it comes to feelings and emotions. It may seem unbelievable in the 21st century, but let’s face it: there are a lot of humans walking around on this planet who are the intellectual equal of a low bank of yellow snow. Men who feel things (and recognise that they feel things) instead of denying their own emotions are the kind of men who learn. And a learned man is a better man. Men who move through life and own the things they’ve done wrong, as well as the things they’ve gotten right, are men with substance. Emotionally complex men actually learn from the ups and downs that life brings their way. All the loving and losing and hurting and trying again with hope in their hearts (and not just in their pants) actually means something.

Woman Shocked to find out she is having 5 Babies After She Thought it was Just One Baby

 A  25 year old woman, Manita Singh has given birth to five healthy daughters in just half an hour despite only thinking she was pregnant with one child.

She was admitted at a local government hospital in Ambikapur, in Chhattisgarh in eastern India, yesterday morning after complaining of labour pains at 26 weeks of pregnancy.

The doctors, who started delivering the babies at 11am found she was carrying not one but five baby girls – because Manita had never had an ultrasound.

The babies, all weighing just over 3lbs each, are under doctor’s supervision in the neo-natal Intensive Care Unit.

Woman kills her 1yr old child, gorged out her eyes and drank her blood.

 A woman in Onicha Uboma Autonomous Community in the Ihitte/Uboma Local Government Area, Imo State, identified only as Ifeoma allegedly killed her one-year-old child, gorged out her eyes and drank her blood.
According to Daily Independent, the 39-year-old woman was alleged to have committed the heinous act inside her husband’s shop. Mr. Azubuike Emedom returned from a business trip to find his wife and child missing.

"It was gathered that after searching for them in the neighbourhood without result, Mr. Emedom proceeded to his shop, although he thought it abnormal for them to be in the shop that early. When he got to the shop, he discovered that the shop was locked from the inside, but after repeated knocks and Ifeoma’s failure to open the door, Mr. Emedom was said to have broken down the door, only to find his wife inside, blood on her mouth and the baby wrapped in blood stained cloth. Mr. Emedom uncovered the baby, he discovered that she had died, even as her eye balls were plugged out and blood gushing from the sockets. The baby’s hands and legs were also broken."

A community leader who spoke under anonymity claims that Ifeoma is of a ‘marine spirit.’"

"I believe she used this child for sacrifices, she sucked the blood of the child because by the time we caught her, her mouth was full of blood. She killed the baby intentionally. She always renders sacrifice to their gods in the river. Some months ago, she attempted to kill a woman from our community. She injured the woman with a knife," he said.

The suspect has been arrested and detained at the Ihitte/Uboma Police station.
Deputy Superintendent of Police (DSP) Andrew Enwerem, the Police Public Relation Officer of the Imo Police Command who confirmed the story said investigations were on going.

Source: Daily Independent via Osai Ovie Success