When a relationship is doing more harm to you than good, it’s time to quit it. Jumia Travel shares 4 signs to help you determine when a relationship is doing more harm to you than good.
Abuse
Be it physical or emotional abuse, any type of abuse is a glaring sign that you should quit the relationship. Please don’t be lenient with abuse or make excuses for it; simply let go and move on because abuse is one of the clearest ways to communicate a lack of care, love and respect for someone. Abuse does not go hand in hand with love, if anything they are polar opposites. Although, one thing to note here is that emotional abuse is more relative than physical abuse. For instance, there is arguably a degree of emotional abuse in every relationship. When you try to control your partner or influence them emotionally to act or behave in a certain way, by ignoring them (ignoring their calls, messages etc), refusing to talk to them (the silent treatment), being provocative with the other sex (trying to make them jealous) and so on, to a degree that’s emotional abuse. These are all elements of emotional abuse that are born from the very fair fact that we are human. But when emotional abuse becomes dangerous, is when you begin to lose your confidence and live in fear of what your partner is going to do to you next emotionally.
Lagos – A 36-year-old seamstress, Sherifat Adetunji, pleaded at a Lagos Island Customary Court that her marriage should be dissolved on ground that her husband was longer ejaculating inside her during sex. The mother of two said that her 10-year-old marriage was blissful until five years ago when things started changing.
She lamented that her husband could go a year or more without making love to her and that when he did he would not ejaculate inside her. “My husband has been starving me sexually, sometimes he will not touch me for a whole year and when he did, he would not release inside me. “I have complained severally about my dissatisfaction over his attitude towards our sexual life, but has refused to change,” she said.
After six years of marriage, popular singer, Muma Gee, and husband Actor prince eke has decided to call it a quite. Muma Gee, has filled for divorce for alledging long suffering and torture marriage,
According to her publicist and close friend Don Saint, more details will be released soon, as Muma Gee fears for her life and safety following series of death threats from Prince Eke, as collaborated yesterday in his post, that she should be prepared to rest in peace.
