Dear pub readers can friends be lovers

''I have this male colleague at work and we are very friendly, we see and chat with each other everyday. We’re both single and so far, the relationship has been purely platonic – except for once or twice that we have kissed when slightly tipsy.

Lately, I’ve been having sexual fantasies about him. I’m not sure he feels the same way and I’m worried an affair might ruin our relationship. How do I make the first move without making a fool of myself.''
Over to you guys.

John dumel. 'dont rush into marriage

Ghollywood/Nollywood actor has some advice for the single ones. See what he wrote below.

''The rate at which marriages are collapsing these days is alarming. People rush into marriage for the wrong reasons. They feel it's just nice to marry. So Let's marry! They forget it takes a lot to stay married hence if you are not ready, don't rush into it. Don't let "external pressures" force you to get married. When/if marriage problems start, those who were giving you pressure will be nowhere to be found. God will reveal the right one at the right time, His time is the best! #jmelo''

Music producer, VC Perez welcomes first child,5 years after marriage,

Nigerian music producer,Vc Perez and wife, Lilly Perez welcomed their first child on Saturday, January 23, and took to social media to share the good news.
VC Perez produced most of Naeto C’s first songs and a few songs on D’banj’s sophomore album and many others. Another photo below

10 tips for breastfeeding after returning to work

1. How’s it going?
Assess your breastfeeding status. If your baby is just a few weeks old, you may feel breastfeeding is not yet well established. This is the most challenging age to return to work and keep breastfeeding going. You’ll probably need to pump at least twice while you’re at work, and possibly three or four times during the day to keep up your milk supply. If breastfeeding is well established, but your baby hasn’t yet started on solids, you will also need to pump to provide milk for your baby while you are separated.
2. Prep work
Don’t get ready to go back to work too early. Your focus should be on getting breastfeeding well established, so you have a  soid milk supplies and a baby who nurses effectively. There’s no need to, for example, introduce a bottle at two weeks because you are planning to return to work at six months. A couple weeks before your return to the job is usually plenty of time to begin helping your baby to get ready. If your older baby has always nursed to sleep, naptmes may be your biggest worry. You may want to talk to your daycare provider about approaches used to help babies nap (such as patting their back or rocking them) so that you can add these to your baby’s going-to-sleep routine.
3. Daycare plan
Seek out supportive child care and discuss your plans to breastfeed there. Daycare situations vary greatly, and some know more about breast feeding than others. Ask about how they would store your milk if you are planning on bringing some in each day. Ideally you will be able to spend some time in the centre nursing your baby at the beginning and end of each day. Not only does that help your child feel comfortable in the daycare environment, but it also exposes you to any germs that might be present so you can create antibodies against them and have those antibodies present in your milk. You may also want to ask the daycare provider to time the daily feeds so your baby will be hungry and ready to nurse when you arrive at the end of the day.

Couple who met at the airport and fell inlove.Set to wed after 18 months

The will be husband and wife met and fell in love after the flight they were meant to board at the Toronto airport was delayed, 18 months later they have bought a house together and are set to wed in September.

In 2004, 26-yr-old Marketing executive Kristen was just through a bad breakup and was heading to Kenya to volunteer at an orphanage.

She met 33-yr-old engineering supervisor, Darren who was also waiting for the same flight and his buddy when she realised most people who had been grounded had disappeared too. She was scared she had missed her flight.

“Everyone else had been given meal vouchers and had gone to get food, ” she said.

Darren and his pal then asked her to sit with them while they got drinks and food, the pair spent the next few hours eating and talking.

When it was time to board the flight they found out there was an empty seat next to Darren, the flight was going to be a long one so she sat next to him.

Beautiful photo of duncan mighty baby

The port Harcourt first son share this adorable photo if his son. He was born in November 2015

 Such a cutie. Another photo after the cut.

I’m a married woman, but I’m sexually attracted to a man at work,

 I don’t know what is wrong with me and I have gone very far in a relationship with a guy who works in my office. That is not even the big issue. The big issue is that I’m married and I have kids and enjoy a good relationship with my husband. I have carried on with this for a while and the relationship is good for my sex life because it kind of rejuvenated it and makes me more attractive to my husband who noticed I am looking different and being update in fashion. He has not suspected I’m having an affair but I fear he would eventually get to know if I don’t stop. My life is becoming more exciting and I have come to realize that it’s not just about sex. It’s about everything about me.

What do I do?

please reader what will she do?. Lol

Wayne rooney and wife welcome their third child

Manchester United striker Wayne Rooney who already had two sons, a six-year-old Kai and two-year-old Klay, welcomed their third son.on Sunday 24th January
Rooney, 30, announced the arrival of Kit by telling his Twitter followers: “Our gorgeous little boy arrived today. Kit Joseph Rooney. 8lb 1oz. We are over the moon.”

Chacha Eke Faani in matching outfit with her daughter

The mother of one shared this lovely photo of herself in matching outfit with her angle

More photos after the cut

9ice’s new baby mama, Sunkanmi makes customized pendants for her man's 4 kids

 The pendant below

Yoruba Nollywood actor, Tunde Owokoniran ties the knot Traditionally with his love

The low-key traditional marriage was held on Thursday, January 24, 2015, in Ondo State. His colleagues were also there to support him. congratulations to the newly married. Another pics below

Adora Ukoh shares her baby bump photo

The plus size actress who is expecting her first child with her pilot hubby shares her baby bump Pictures . The pregnancy sure looks good on her.

One more photo after the cut

Former Nollywood actress Caroline Danjuma shares tips on how to remarry

  The former actress and the mother of three, shares some tips of how to remarry.She said, her post is “for women who have been divorced or heartbroken … You deserve the world and all the diamonds in it. ”She also shared a photo of the ring size of different stars (Kim Kardashian West, Beyonce, Elizabeth Taylor and Mariah Carey) with a comment on “How to remarry”.

 See what she wrote

How to remarry… Don’t settle for less…#womenwhoknowtheirworth #womenpower.. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion …. A lot of peeps just Hv sooo much anger in them that they take things as if it’s the end of the world.. Pls if you don’t like what I post don’t look at my page or comment just Waka pass . Peace. When a man loves a woman he gives her the world .. A woman who has gone through heartbreak should never remarry unless he treats her like a QUEEN that she truly is .. Now my post is for women who have been divorced or heartbroken … You deserve the world and all the diamonds in it and YES do not settle for LESS.. Women face the most abuse and violence in relationships and marriage .. This women are worshipped by their new found luv ..Who doesn’t want that ? .. Plssssssssss.

Adaeze Yobo shares cute family photo

The formal beauty queen shared her beautiful family photo