Quarreling in marriage

 For some weeks now i have being having a tight schedule, that is why i have not being able to write an article. please pardon me dear readers. Today am writing about quarreling in marriage.I will start by saying if any couple whether married or not say they don't quarrel  at one point or the other, then the person is a ''big liar''Even the couple that have celebrated there silver or golden jubilee will tell you that it is not an easy thing to keep a marriage going.This brings me to the question if is right or wrong for couples to quarrel, infact the answer is  “YES!” When a husband and wife quarrel, they are engaging in a perfectly normal and expected part of marriage. In fact, disagreement between two people in love is actually healthy for their relationship. To quarrel is NOT the question! The question is be, “Why do you quarrel and how frequent is your quarrel and how long does it take you guys to make up?. Infact a lady once told me that her best time for making love with her boy friend is after quarreling.Quarreling with your spouse will still make you to know more about him or her.

My Fiancee of 4 Years is HIV Positive and I'm Not, What Do I Do?

 My 22-year old fiancee who came to my place just a day ago got a call from her family doctor that her attention was urgently needed prior to some tests that were conducted on her two days back. I had to tell her to go see her doctor immediately as it could be something very important, so she left.

She called me up some hours later to tell me her doctor says she's HIV positive. My head spun and I started thinking of where I must had gotten it from. We've been intimately together for 4years, and we make love as often as we feel like although our busy schedule hasn't made us see for up to a month now.

As I got the news, I felt so restless and just had to go join her at the hospital so they could carry a test to confirm my status. It came out negative. I promised her to always be by her side and wouldn't leave her cos of the disease. I trust her a lot and I believe she must have contracted it through sharp objects her makeup business exposes her to like razor blades.

Dear readers, I need your advice. It's 3am in the morning, and she's called thrice already; she's depressed and suicidal right now. Pls air your matured and helpful opinion. God bless you.

Read the top two responses he got from his friends:

"Comfort her. Let her know that her illness doesn't define or change who she is. Not only that but it's 2016 and with the advances in medicine she can live a long normal life, so she shouldn't worry.

Also you can take precautions so you can still have s*x but will NOT be affected. So there is nothing to worry about as long as you both are responsible. Most importantly let her know that your love for her will not change and you will get through this together. The most important part is for her to understand that having HIV doesn't make her any less than anyone else. We are all human, we all bleed the same. Even with HIV her blood is still the same color as yours, no?"

The second commenter has this to say:

"Just because you did a test for three or five days later and found out you are negative may not mean you are, you need to take the test in the next three month and finally in the next six month to finally confirm you as negative.

Photo of some celebrities at Ushbebe's son's naming ceremony

 Comedian Ushbebe and wife Anette Nuagbe, who welcomed a baby boy last week, March 15, 2016 had an intimate naming ceremony for their son who has been christened Nolan yesterday, Tuesday, March 22, 2016.

The ceremony had in attendance close family and friends and this picture of Olamide cradling the baby who is his Godson.

Annie Idibia gushes about her husband as they celebrate 3rd wedding annivasary.

Today is the celebrity couple  3rd wedding anniversary and annie took to social media to write a sweet message to her husband, says that she will never leave him. read below

Woman Divorces Husband After Discovering He Was Impotent on Their Wedding Night

 A newly married Indian teenager has divorced her husband just two weeks after she married him because she discovered he was impotent and could not perform in bed.

The 18-year-old bride from Katna village in Murshidabad, West Bengal state, found out about his impotent state on the night of their wedding, and immediately demanded a divorce and refund of her dowry.

According to reports, the girl's family who supported her asked that the divorce be fast-tracked in order not to ruin the girl's reputation with other suitors in the future. The family said they do not want their daughter to be branded barren after marrying a man who cannot impregnate a woman.

The 18-year-old reportedly asked the family of her husband, from Burdwan district in West Bengal, to return the dowry: 55,000 rand (£2,547) in cash as well as assets worth the same amount.

'On our wedding night, I realised that my husband has erectile dysfunction,' the 18-year-old told Times of India.

'In our village, marriages have broken up earlier. But no girl has ever cited impotence as a reason.'

It is believed the groom's family had wanted the woman to give their son sometime by continuing in the marriage, but the woman refused. The groom and his family have now been compelled to pay the dowry after the bride won the case in a family court.

A local court ruled in the teenager's favour and the groom's family will be paying back the entire dowry in cash - 110,000 rand (£5,090)

Psychologists Makes Interesting Revelation on why Our Eyes are Closed when kissing someone welove.

 Unless you are really not feeling it or constantly vigilant, much like sneezing, kissing is nigh on impossible to with your eyes open.

Up until now, you've probably accepted it as 'just one of those things'. After all, who wants to get overly-analytical about kissing?

But as a study on vision and tactile sensory experience carried out by Royal Holloway, University of London revealed, there is one very good reason why we do it.

Simply put, our brains can't handle it.

Or, as the study more scientifically concluded, our grey matter struggles to process another sense while also concentrating on the visual stimuli - so looking at the object of our affections while kissing them.

However, before you sign up for any future studies on the same topic, it was in fact conducted without people kissing.

Instead, participants had to do visual tests while their response to something touching their hands was measured.

The tests involved letter-searching tasks which varied in difficulty, the Independent reported, and their response to a small vibration being applied to one of their hands was measured.

Academics Polly Dalton and Sandra Murphy, from the university, shared their findings in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: Human Perception and Performance.

What did it mean for kissing?

Apparently, participants were less responsive to the sense of touch as their eyes did more work.

So for other activities necessitating a tactile sense - like kissing, dancing and sex - people tend to want to focus on touch, rather than have visual distractions.

It means we can concentrate our energy on the task at hand, and give it one hundred per cent of our effort.

And having been evolved this way for millions of years, it would be a bit off-putting to change now.
 

Man Strangles Pregnant Ex-Girlfriend to Death for reporting him to the taxman.

 24 year old Matthew Smith strangled his pregnant ex girlfriend and mother of his 2 children, Isobel 'Becky' Parker, 23, in the bathroom of her home in Burnham-on-Crouch, Essex, after discovering his tax credits had been stopped because he thought she reported him to the taxman.

 

After he killed her with cable ties wound tightly around her neck, he sent a text message to her younger sister, which read: "By the time you get there it will be too late."

 

When Sarah asked him where he was, he replied: "We all know it is too late for that."

 

Out of fear for Becky's safety, her distraught sister ran to her home only to find Becky strangled to death in the tub. Police were called and Smith was arrested on the suspicion of murder. Smith admitted to killing Becky, who was six months' pregnant with another man's baby. But said he was out of his mind when he did it.

 

During the trial, the jury heard how Becky, a former restaurant worker, had been in a relationship with Smith for at least six years but had left him after she met someone else.

 

Smith took the break very badly but got around to accepting that Becky had moved on. She got pregnant almost immediately after meeting the man last year.

 

Smith was sentenced to life in prison but he showed no emotion when he was sentence.

Toyin Aimakhu's ex-lover Seun Egbegbe opens up says, "She repaid my love with lies

 Toyin Aimakhu released a disclaimer weeks back distancing herself from  ex-lover and Ebony Films boss,Seun Egbegbe. The young man has opened up following their split last month. Read below


    "On the fateful day I left TOYIN at home where we both live and went for a meeting, she left for a location and hours later my phone started ringing and people started saying the “prostitute you put at home is crying on Instagram over another man”.
     I called Toyin immediately and I said what is this I am hearing and that even if you are going to do anything why didn’t you tell me your boyfriend so i can know what to them? I expected her to remove it but hours later it was there and I had to rush to the location where I seized her phones but I left my Range Rover which I had been allowing her to drive to shore up her image as a Nollywood star, with her though.     A few hours later I saw about 10 missed calls and I called back it was one Taiwo Adepekan she is an upcoming actress who said that she was coming with Toyin to beg me and I said she should finish her job because what do I want to do with the phone anyway, it was because of the love I have for Toyin that made me take her phones cos I thought she was making a fool of her self and was also being unfair to our relationship. I would have dropped her phone eventually cos when I took her phone she still had my Range Rover anyway .

   Hours later, I started getting calls again that Toyin has been kidnapped and they alleged that I was the one that kidnapped her and I was shocked beyond words. I then got a call from Taiwo again saying Toyin had gone to report to a woman in Alausa and she was angry with Toyin that why are you doing this, he took just your phone while you still had his Range Rover so why are you doing this? I am shocked Toyin behaved this way, when we started dating, I had 2 cars a Range Rover and Honda Crosstour which was stolen. I gave Toyin the Range Rover while I took cabs around town spending an average of N10k daily and I gave her the best to make her happy and I don’t know why she will repay my love, kindness and all with all this defamation of character and destruction of my name.""

Football icon Segun Odegbami's second son, Stephen set to wed release pre-wedding photos

Stephen Odegbami who is a sound engineer and a recent graduate of SAE , in  USA  will be tying the knot to his long time US-based lover on May 14th, 2016. See the pre-wedding photos below

 

Woman Bites Off Her Husband's Manhood for Cheating on Her

 According to WNDR, 43-year old Christina Palmer Anderson,  was arrested  by the St. Louis Police Department, after she tore off her husband’s genitals with her own teeth as an act of vengeance for an alleged infidelity.

During her interrogation, Christina confessed that she had been planning her crime since she had surprised her husband performing oral sex on her crystal meth dealer, last weekend.

She told police that she had spent many hours sharpening her teeth  with nail file over the last week, in order to make the castration easier. She finally put her plan into action this morning, and began by tighing her husband’s hand and feet to their bed, pretending that it was part of a sexual game.

OAP Toolz Reaction When a Lady Admired Her Husband on Instagram

 Toolz's husband, Captain Demuren recently posted the photo below on Instagram:

Nigerian Lady announces on Twitter that she's looking for a husband for her mum

When she was  asked  if her mum was aware of what she was doing, Tosin replied:

Actress Omotola & her husband, Capt. Matthew vacation in Hawaii for their 20th wedding aniversary.

 Actress Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde and her husband Captain Matthew are on a 10-day trip abroad to celebrate their 20th Wedding Anniversary. Omotola revealed that they are in Honolulu, Hawaii. She shared the photo above of herself and her hubby on a beach on the tropical Island...

Tony Elumelu shares photo of his adorable triplet daughters with Mrs Onari Duke

Chairman of UBA and Heir Holdings Tony Elumelu shared this photo of his triplets with the wife of former Governor of Cross Rivers State, Mrs Onari Duke. 

In house joke, all work and no play..............

The boy will be like ''so for your mind, u think say i be mumu''

My rival is a sugar-mummy

 I knew my boyfriend was romantically linked to a fashion designer almost 16 years his senior when I met him. He was a widower and his lover visited as often as she could because she was married.As compensation, she was financially responsible for virtually everything he had – the bed, his clothes and second hand car. After I met him, we started meeting fairly regularly and I even stayed over in his flat from time to time. He made it clear, though, that he was very fond of this older woman and wouldn’t want to hurt her. I asked him if he didn’t want to remarry and he said not in the immediate future. I have seen this woman and she’s not half as pretty as I am. What in God’s name does he see in her to prefer hurting me like this?

2Shotz says that he made a huge mistake marrying the wrong woman

 shotz who has being having issues with his estranged wife Precious wrote a birthday message to himself,and addressed the issue.He says, he made a huge mistake,marrying the wrong woman(She alleged he was physically, emotionally abusive and also said she was the breadwinner) .He wrote

    So I'm here today..grateful to God..grateful for life..grateful for another year added to my life..through ups n downs...speaking of downs...lemme be a man and accept my wrongs (if any)...I accept to myself that I made a huge mistake in my life dat opened my eyes to a lot and changed my things....being with a wrong woman and now being a father to a child I may never see against my will ..in as much as I love my child more dan my own life.....this has come to make me appreciate my family and mom n dad I wanna say i understand now...and i love u both to death for how you have raised me....may God also bless my siblings muna and chichi......

    I appologise to everyone especially the fans for not coming tru as much....these r a few reasons why I havnt been heard in a while....I'm sorry for all d negative wrongful press Ive brought to you....its not been easy separating. 2shotz from William.....but this is to say THANK YOU to everyone for still giving me a chance and d CORE fans for still believing in me through my downfall.......i promise not to let everyone down anymore......and just to prove dis...everything dats happened to my life I put down in songs so I'm dropping a NEW mixtape tomorrow 21/03/16.....LOUD SILENCE..hope you enjoy it... Happy birthday to me........send me ur gifts in PRAYERS...turn up later tonight.....👍👍👍

Are we missing something?Juliet Ibrahim & Bryan Okwara loved up in new photo

Juliet Ibrahim and ex Mr Nigeria, Bryan Okwara who's rumours of the two  dating has being trending for some time now just added fuel to those rumours with this photo both of them shared.
Juliet wrote

    Bae 😘 @bryanokwara thx for being you #purplehearts 💜💜"

Bryan wrote...

    Shhhh its Alhaji and baebae! ...#purplehearts

Comedian Mr Patrick marries his American lover

 Mr Patrick wedded his American lover, Tammy at the Ikoyi Registry yesterday. Tammy is said to be a trained accountant. Another photo below

Marrying My Husband is My Greatest Mistake in Life - Woman Cries Out

 A 38-year-old nurse, Victoria Adebayo, on Friday told an Orile Agege Customary Court that her greatest mistake was her marriage to Adebayo 14 years ago.

Victoria, who reside at No 2, Shittu Street, Orile Agege, a suburb of Lagos, urged the court to dissolve her marriage, citing battery and theft.

"My lord, my marriage to Adebayo was the greatest mistake of my life. My husband is a lazy man, he does not want to work and he steals my money. He also drinks to stupor and does not go to church, he has a hardened heart.

"I pay all the bills including the children school fees and still he beats me at will. It Is better not to have a husband than having one that is not functioning as a husband and still beat you, I want a divorce,’’ the mother of two said.

The respondent, who resides at No 2, Anijilaje Street, Alfa Nla, Orile Agege, admitted to beating his wife.

"I beat her because of her disobedience and illegal abortions for her patients in my house. I drink but not to stupor, I did not steal her money, I only took N1,000 from her money when I wanted to go out.

"I still love my wife, I don’t want dissolution of our marriage,’’ Adebayo said.

The President of the court, Dr Kayode Whenu, told the couple to maintain the peace, and adjourned the case till April 19 for further hearing.

19-year-old Pregnant Girl Stabs Boyfriend to Death for Posting Another Girl's Photo on Facebook

 25-year-old a university student and footballer, Kelvin Mugalla Ikatwa, was allegedly stabbed to death by 19-year-old Sheila Atema, with a knife at her house in Kangemi Trench, Kenya.

It was learnt that quarrel started when Mugalla uploaded a picture of a different woman on his Facebook wall. The girl has since been arrested.

I Lied to My Fiance that I Am a Virgin, Now Our Wedding Day is Close - Lady Laments

Nigerian Psychologist, Joro Olumofin shared the story of a lady whose lie about being a virgin is about to be exposed. Read  below:

Omotola and hubby set for their 20th wedding anniversary

Actress Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde and her husband, Mathew, will be celebrating their 20th wedding anniversary in a few days. 

 She shared these photos on her Instagram page yesterday and wrote

"20 years ago he said to me pack for I week babes we going somewhere tomorrow. It became my honeymoon to Côte d'Ivoire, my first time on a private jet and he flew the plane! Yesterday, he said to me pack for 10 days babes we going somewhere! He's still flying as I await ... anticipating like a kid again ... Where could it be this time?#exited #countdowntomarch23rd#20yearsmarriageanniversary".

Actress Adaora Ukoh welcomes baby boy

 The actress and her oyibo husband welcomed a baby boy yesterday. Mum and son are said to be doing well.

Comic actor John okarfor shares adorable photos of his wife and new baby.

 The comic actor popularly known as Mr Ibu,who welcomed a son with his wife in February 2016 seems quite taken with his newborn.He shared some adorable photos of his wife and new son.More photos below

Man,77 begs court for divorce from sex-depriving wife, says he is afraid of prostrate cancer

 

 A 77-year-old retired engineer today at the Agboyi-Ketu Customary Court in Lagos pleaded to have his 23-year-old marriage dissolved, after alleging that his wife often starved him of sex. The septuagenarian, Kola Fagbule, whose address was not disclosed, told the court that his 51-year-old wife, Beatrice, always denied him sex anytime he demanded for it.

    “She always starves me of sex whenever I am in the mood and I don’t want to have prostate cancer. At my age, I am supposed to be enjoying sex now and not when I am gone; I don’t want to die before my time,” he told the court.

Wiz Khalifa spends some quality time with son, Sebastian

The rapper shared new cuddling photos of himself and his 2-yr-old son Sebastian, with his ex, Amber Rose via his Instagram page.Commenting on a photo of Bash playing on the floor, Wiz said:

"Let him stay up late last night."

My Born-again Husband Can't Satisfy Me, He Uses 'One Style' - Wife Laments

A newly wedded wife who is going through the ordeal of sexual boredom wrote to online Psychologist, Joro Olumofin on the way forward.
Read below

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Beautiful photo of Femi Branch,his daughter Olivia and his son Nathan.

Singer Jhene Aiko marries Nigerian born music producer

 

 Nigerian born US-based music producer, Dot Da Genius  married his 29 year old longtime girlfriend music producer,Jhene Aiko. real name Oladipo Omishore, shared a photo of the two exchanging rings and wrote that he's happy to be on the quest with Jhene.Another photo below