Would u quite a good paying job to please your husband?

I have being married to my husband for nine years. i met him when i just finished my secondary school.It was just love at first sight, we were so inseparable in love.He made so many promises to me which include seeing me through the university. We dated for some months and then got married.After  some months i became pregnant, during the pregnancy i sat for jamb and fortunately i got admission into Uni-lag to study banking and finance. I will say that i really suffered going to school and still having kids, i got to school from home and my house is very far from school but i still manged and graduated with a good result.
Since then my husband has refused me working, we have argued it over and over again yet he refused. last year a friend of mine that works with one of the new generation bank told me that their bank will be hiring some staff, so i applied for the job without telling my husband and luckily i got the job and i was posted to a branch not too far from my house. When i was given an appointment letter i came back and told my husband, he became furious and said i want to become a prostitute by working in a bank. He has being threatening to throw me out from the house if i don't quite the job. i have three kids two boys and a girl. Should i really quite my job to be a house wife?