Dating or courtship is so very important before marriage. It doesn’t necessary mean that it will be all about sex. This helps couple to spend time with each, know yourselfs more. I am not saying that if you date or court, that you will not have problems in marriage. U guys are from different background even blood related people still do have problem, but what I mean is that, it helps reduces the rate of divorce or irreconcilable differences in marriage.
So here are my 5 suggested points on how to “Date" or "Court"
1. Don’t make your date itinerary a routine or a duty either. Always try something new if possible. If unable to...switch it up a bit with a little added twist and rotate the activities or outings. Make it fun.
2. Get creative and use your imagination and resources. I do understand that this can be a difficult feat (especially when a night out with the Boys/Girls) seems more appealing. All you can really do is try to make an assertive effort and you’ll be surprise how she/he will come around and may begin to look forward to your dates.
3. Plan your date night and plan a separate night out with the Boys/Girls so that there is balance. A separate night out with one’s peers is necessary from time to time.
4. If an important scheduled "Date Night" or "Boys/Girls Night" event conflicts with each other, have some leniency with one other and make a joint decision to alternate or swap days.
5. Try and do things you both like, try some of things that attracted you to each other in the first place. Also, alternate between what you like and what they like with the hopes of appreciating or understanding each others interest even more.
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