An old African proverb says: “If you want to go fast, walk alone. If you want to go far, walk with others.” We were created to be in relationship with others; to love, to laugh, and to live together. But, there are times in life’s journey that can be extremely lonely, especially if you gave your heart to another and that person mistreated you or ignored your gift.
When we are hurt, we long for someone to take away the pain, sooth the wounds and offer us hope. Often, those longings go unsatisfied. In our attempts to find love, we give ourselves to others over and over only to be hurt more each time.
Love, Marriages,Heartbreaks,breakups,makeups, wedding anniversaries and off course Relationship gossips
Monday, February 29, 2016
See what a girl and her friend did to a guy who broke her heart
This lady and her friend put the picture of this guy in a bible page with words and curses(Psalm 109).
Vs 9..
Madonna says she fired her personal trainer because she was sleeping with her ex-boyfriend
Madonna who likes them young,decided to call out her former personal trainer for sleeping with her ex-boyfriend. She told fans during her "Rebel Heart Tour" in the Philippines about her stunning trainer who slept with her boyfriend at the time.According to Celeb Buzz, she said
“I just wanted to share this little story with you, Once I had a Filipino trainer, this beautiful, beautiful girl. She was gorgeous and very talented as a trainer,” “But… she f----- my boyfriend,” “I fired her. I just wanted to share that with you,”
Lady angry because her boyfriend proposed with a small ring.Lol
Many single ladies are wishing for this and this lady is angry that her engagement ring is small. We human.........
A Married Woman Pestering Me for Sex for Over 2 Years, What Do I do?
''Please how do I handle this situation''?
''I am in a fixed, and I need your help. I have an old family friend, we have come a very long way. She's almost my dad's age, though my dad is late now.
This woman has been disturbing me for a long period of two years now, but I couldn't fall for her flashy gifts and her so called love.
I confided in my close friend about the woman's sexual advances. He said I should have s*x with the woman, but by the grace of God I'm a disciplined person and I refused.
Sunday, February 28, 2016
In house joke, all work and no play............
Body no be firewood joor. let's take out some minutes to ease off and while we are at it, i think this will make us smile small.
Halima Abubakar: ''I will never marry an actor''
From her interview with the Nation,Halima Abubakar has opened up on the kind of man she likes, also says she will never to marry an actor..Read excerpts
On men finding her intimidating...
Well, that will be the man’s business because I didn’t tell such a man not to go to school, or have a library; I cannot afford not to be myself because of a man who feels intimidated by me. A man should even be happy to encourage me. Any man that is intimidated by a lady is not a man.
I have, however, learnt to be tolerant of people. I have learnt to ignore a lot of side talks; I have learnt to be patient with a lot of people, because I have a temper which I have learnt to control. I am working on myself. Also because of the way that I have been treated in the past by people, I really do not value friendship. I am trying hard to know people and that’s where patience comes in. I am still trying to open up; I hope I will be able to do that with a man that I hope to spend the rest of my life with. I do not want a man that I will spend just one year with and he’s gone. I don’t want a man that will make me pop out babies, then he will go clubbing. I will drag his hair to the house! I’ve had anger in the past, so it’s easy to piss me off and it’s easy for me to forgive. I don’t react; at the same time I’m not a robot, so I am bound to react once in a while.
Sex position that can be harmful to men
A study has revealed the most dangerous sex position for men and it happens to be one position most men prefer.Scientists in Brazil conducted a study into the causes and symptoms of having a fractured penis.The results were published in Advances in Urology.
The research concluded;
Toyin Aimakhu writes birthday message to ex husband,Johnson Adenyi
Despite the fact that they are separated,Toyin Aimakhu still took out out time to pens down birthday message to her estranged husband. The couple called it quite last year and they have since moved on with their lives.
Trouble in paradise: seems like Nicki Minaj & Meek Mill are Over
According to Media Take Out,t Nicki hired a moving truck and moved all of Meek's clothes out of their Los Angeles home and is having it shipped to Philly. Their relationship is reportedly at an all time low.
According to a snitch, Meek got caught being sloppy with it. A Philadelphia stripper contacted Nicki Minaj claiming to have been sleeping with Meek. And that was all Nicki could handle.
TMZ has confirmed that Nicki and Meek are breaking up. According to TMZ, the couple recently
had a huge fight over the Philly rapper’s impending house arrest. Their sources state the dust up was caused because Mill wants Minaj to stay with him while he serves out his 90 day in-home stint.
But Nicki isn’t willing to just sit around for a full three months. According to the report, this fight was bigger than any of the couple’s past squabbles.
Woman Arraign in court of Raping Female Friend with 'Dildo'
A 26-year-old Ghanaian woman, Queeny Akuffo, has been charged to court for raping a 22 year old lady. The victim told the court on Wednesday that she carried out chores for the accused and on the day that the incident occurred, she was invited by the accused to cook for her.
She is said to have sedated Amoakwa, who is her neighbour and raped her with an artificial penis,
otherwise called a dildo at Ablekuma in the Ga West District of Greater Accra.
Queeny has pleaded not guilty to a charge of rape and has been granted bail by the court.
On January 25, 2016, the victim was on her way to buy food for her son when she received an invitation to visit Queeny. According to the prosecution, the victim quickly went home to attend to her son before she honoured the invitation.
Newly Weds Ebuka & Cynthia Uchendu Step Out in Style
Media personality Ebuka Uchendu and his wife, Cynthia pictured with Darey Art Alade at cocktail party yesterday. Marriage is beautiful
How do you know when a guy wants to settle down?
When is a man ready to settle down? The answer is not always as obvious as we might like. In a culture as visual as ours, we demand the most conspicuous of tells. If a guy is covered in maritime tats and wears Warby Parker specs, he's probably open-minded and down with composting.
If you spot truck nuts dangling from his jacked-up Ford F-350 Super Duty, he may feel that "the old ways are the best ways." Sadly, unless a guy picks you up in a minivan that's not his mom's, the clues about his readiness for long-term commitment won't be as blaring as his Coexist bumper sticker.
I understand that the struggle to find a quality guy who wants something serious is scary real.There is a popular theme that seems to run through many of their stories. The guys most ladies link up with are either "not looking for a relationship right now" or "trying to get my life together" or "just not in that place right now," Or whatever handy victim-of-circumstance lines men use to avoid emotional intimacy.
If you spot truck nuts dangling from his jacked-up Ford F-350 Super Duty, he may feel that "the old ways are the best ways." Sadly, unless a guy picks you up in a minivan that's not his mom's, the clues about his readiness for long-term commitment won't be as blaring as his Coexist bumper sticker.
I understand that the struggle to find a quality guy who wants something serious is scary real.There is a popular theme that seems to run through many of their stories. The guys most ladies link up with are either "not looking for a relationship right now" or "trying to get my life together" or "just not in that place right now," Or whatever handy victim-of-circumstance lines men use to avoid emotional intimacy.
I Want a Divorce and My 550,000 Pounds Debt My Husband Owes Me - Wife tells Court
According to Vanguard, a 36 year-old housewife, Helen Owie on Tuesday at the Asaba High Court 3, Delta State broke down in tears, begging the court to help recover €550,000 from her husband, one Chidi Ike from Imo State.
Helen in a mild drama at the dock inside the High Court room while she was being cross-examined by her counsel, Mr. Raphael Okhouoleigbe said: “I got a contact from one of my customers in Benin City where I was then trading in clothes around New Benin Market in 2009 by one Obina who later introduced me to my husband Chidi”.
Helen in a mild drama at the dock inside the High Court room while she was being cross-examined by her counsel, Mr. Raphael Okhouoleigbe said: “I got a contact from one of my customers in Benin City where I was then trading in clothes around New Benin Market in 2009 by one Obina who later introduced me to my husband Chidi”.
This couple love story all started from twitter.
Tunde Leye, a writer and lawyer shared these messages he exchanged with
his wife when they initially met. He captioned it: "Productive use of
social media"
The way they addressed each other as "Sisi and uncle"
Caroline Danjuma, her husband & their sons attend movie premiere
Caroline Danjuma, her husband and their two sons today attended
the premiere of the movie, The Stalker, which she featured in and also executive produced.
Man rapes 8-year-old stepdaughter
Delta State Police Command has been arrested a 40-year-old man,for allegedly raping his eight-year-old stepdaughter at Okpanam, in the Oshimili North Local Government Area of the state.
He was reported to the police by his 30-year-old ex-wife, who is the mother of the victim.
It was gathered that he allegedly started raping the eight-year-old victim, a primary II pupil, since she was four years old.
He was reported to the police by his 30-year-old ex-wife, who is the mother of the victim.
It was gathered that he allegedly started raping the eight-year-old victim, a primary II pupil, since she was four years old.
Saturday, February 27, 2016
Damm! Get in here ladies
Don't be shy ladies,just answer the question. What type of dick do you prefer. Lol.
Penises are not the same, . There are different and also give different levels of pleasure.
Lovepanky reveals what women love and why.
1 The Grower. We all know this as one of the two most-prominent classifications of the penis This is the more discreet type, because you never know just how long and big it can go, unless you go all the way with the guy. At first it might seem small, but rub it just a little and it grows 2 to 3 times its flaccid size. Magic!
Turkish man Sues Wife for Insulting their President.
In an extreme display of layalty, a Turkish truck driver, Ali Dinc, is suing his own wife for insulting the nation’s president.
He told reporters that she would say “unspeakable obscenities” whenever President Recep Tayyip Erdogan appeared on television, despite knowing that it bothered him.
The latest incident occurred a few days ago during one of Erdogan’s televised speeches. Ali repeatedly warned his wife Gülcan not to curse the man, but she did it anyway and even dared to change the channel, earning his wrath.
The wife apparently went ahead with the insults, telling Ali to “record and lodge a complaint” if it upset him so much. So he did just that – he recorded the insults as evidence and then lodged a complaint with prosecutors in Izmir city.
“I kept on warning her, saying why are you doing this?” he said, speaking to Turkish newspaper Yeni Safak. “Our president is a good person and did good things for Turkey.”
He told reporters that she would say “unspeakable obscenities” whenever President Recep Tayyip Erdogan appeared on television, despite knowing that it bothered him.
The latest incident occurred a few days ago during one of Erdogan’s televised speeches. Ali repeatedly warned his wife Gülcan not to curse the man, but she did it anyway and even dared to change the channel, earning his wrath.
The wife apparently went ahead with the insults, telling Ali to “record and lodge a complaint” if it upset him so much. So he did just that – he recorded the insults as evidence and then lodged a complaint with prosecutors in Izmir city.
“I kept on warning her, saying why are you doing this?” he said, speaking to Turkish newspaper Yeni Safak. “Our president is a good person and did good things for Turkey.”
Ladies: How to keep your man active in the bedroom.
You’ve served up a delicious meal with every piece of his favourite meat, plunk a bottle of wine or his favourite tipple on the dining table, before cuddling up to him on the sofa as he switched on the TV. Today is bound to be the night you get a bit of rumpy-bumpy, right? Most women would quite rightly expect a passionate end to such a satisfying evening. But these days, it seems, we’re likely to get a lot less than we hoped for. Perhaps a peck on the cheek. Or simply a hug. ‘Not tonight, love,” says this man you’ve virtually broken your culinary skill trying to please. Before you know it, he’s hot -footed it into the bedroom, already dozing off!You lie there next to him, frustrated as you listen to his snores instead of the music of the bed springs and the banging of the headboard.
A student of the University of Abuja delivered a baby secretly in the school hostel by herself
A 200 level student of Banking and Finance gave birth to a bouncing baby boy all by herself without the help of her roommates or friends at the female girls hostel at the main campus (University of Abuja).
She delivered of herself a bouncing baby boy within the early hours of 3am to 4am.
Although she gave birth on her own without even her roommates knowing until the baby was out, she was unable to cut the placenta connecting the child to his mother.
The hostel portress was called, who after seeing the incident and couldn’t do anything about the placenta, later called the university school clinic nurse, who came with some medical equipment and ambulance an later cut the placenta and then took the child to the ambulance waiting outside the hostel.
The mother actually walked on her own without any help to the ambulance and then back to the hostel to get a flask of hot water after the school clinicians have attended to her and the baby. She was later discharged from the hospital that same day around 9am.
Court dissolves 22-year marriage for threat to life
An Akure Customary Court on Friday dissolved a 22-year-old marriage between a cleric, Oluwasesan Olasehinde, and his wife, Seri, over alleged threat to life.
The President of the court, Mrs Victoria Oriowo, said the court had observed that the marriage had broken down irredeemably.
Oriowo said the petitioner’s insistence on the dissolution could not be reversed, adding that the court had no option than to dissolve the union.
She awarded custody of the two children to the respondent, adding that the petitioner should pay N5,000 monthly allowances for the children’s upkeep.
The President of the court, Mrs Victoria Oriowo, said the court had observed that the marriage had broken down irredeemably.
Oriowo said the petitioner’s insistence on the dissolution could not be reversed, adding that the court had no option than to dissolve the union.
She awarded custody of the two children to the respondent, adding that the petitioner should pay N5,000 monthly allowances for the children’s upkeep.
''I Am Falling in Love with a Male Friend I Ocassionally Have S*x With, What Should I Do''?
'I have a very good male friend who I’ve known since childhood. Two years ago we both became single and, after a drunken night, ended up in bed together.
To start with it was just s*x and we joked that we were friends with benefits. Then he started seeing somebody else and I did too, but we stayed very good friends.
We’re now single again and have started having s*x occasionally.
However, I’m developing feelings for him and I want a proper relationship. But I’m scared to tell him because if he doesn’t feel the same way then I’ll risk ruining our friendship.
I don’t want to avoid him because he’s such a good friend, but every time I’m with him I just feel down about the fact we’re not properly together.
Should I tell him I’m falling in love with him''?
From anonymous worried woman.
Friday, February 26, 2016
Photo from the burial of the Man killed by lawyer wife
The deceased Oyelowo Ajanaku,who was allegedly stabbed to death by his wife, Yewande on February 2, 2016 was raid to rest today in ibadan. His body first arrived St, Paul’s Anglican Church, Gbogan before he was taken to his compound to be raid to rest. There was so much weeping and wailing by members of his family, friends and other sympathisers for the life of their son and brother that was cut short by his wife. May his soul Rip Amen
A Victim Of Domestic Violence
As shared by Kate Henshaw on her social media page.
I wrote an article about this same topic ''Violence'' some time ago.Is hard to change an abusive man.If u know your in an abusive marriage or relationship just walk away before is too late. In as much as God hate divorce but dead bodies don't talk.
I wrote an article about this same topic ''Violence'' some time ago.Is hard to change an abusive man.If u know your in an abusive marriage or relationship just walk away before is too late. In as much as God hate divorce but dead bodies don't talk.
This
photo was shared by actress Kate Henshaw on her social media page. She
is supposedly a victim of domestic violence - See more at:
http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/02/this-woman-is-victim-of-domestic.html#sthash.Dty0nr6X.dpuf
Gospel Singer Benita Okojie tells Women Not to Try to Change Men – “You’re not God”
Gospel singer Benita Okojie has an advice for the women she shared on her Instagram page, about godly relationships
She told women that they cannot change a man.
Dear Sister, understand that you’re not God. You can’t create any human so why then do you think you can change a man? Often times, women in love give excuses for why men treat them badly or have dangerous habits. Instead of leaving and praying for him from a distance. They stay and believe that they are agents of change.
Sometime ago, I was told a real life story of how a man changed his religion because he was in love. He started going to church, Even joined the work force just to get the lady’s attention. After he married her. He went back to his former religion and his old ways. The lady became miserable.
If a man is going to change. It should be for the right reasons and it is God that changes a man because if Truth be told, ask those who are married… they say love is not enough to keep a marriage but God is enough to keep a marriage and everything else! As I type this, Samson comes to mind. But that’s for another day.
#ThinkOnTheseThings #NoteToMySisters #Love #SuperHeroMentality #LoveAndItsConsequences #Relationship #GodlyRelationship
60 year old man arrested for repeatedly raping 13 year old girl in Lagos
According to PM NEWS Abdulahi Mohammed pictured above, has been arrested and charged before an Ogba Magistrates’ court for allegedly repeatedly raping a 13-year-old girl at his home in Bankole Agagu Street, Oke Aro, a boundary town between Lagos and Ogun states from 2015 into 2016.
The 60 year old man lured the 13 year old girl into his home and forcefully penetrated her. He then warned the victim not to tell anyone. However her parents noticed her awkward movement caused by an injury she sustained during the penetration. When she was questioned, she narrated how the suspect has been forcefully having sex with her for months.
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Funke Akindele Set To Remarry
Funke 'Jenifa' Akindele is getting set to take another shot at marriage, and the lucky man is said to be JJC Skillz of the JJC and 419 Squad.
Nigeriafilms reports that Abdul Rasheed Bello, popularly known as JJC Skillz went down on one knee and made the surprise proposal a few weeks ago in Lekki on the set of her new TV Comedy Drama, Jenifa’s Diary.
And she said yes!
Funke Akindele, a Christian, has remained single after separating from her husband, Kehinde Almaroof in 2013 under very controversial circumstances.
JJC Skillz is a single father of three children, ages 18, 15 and 10 from three different women.
We are waiting for confirmation from both parties.
Nigeriafilms reports that Abdul Rasheed Bello, popularly known as JJC Skillz went down on one knee and made the surprise proposal a few weeks ago in Lekki on the set of her new TV Comedy Drama, Jenifa’s Diary.
And she said yes!
Funke Akindele, a Christian, has remained single after separating from her husband, Kehinde Almaroof in 2013 under very controversial circumstances.
JJC Skillz is a single father of three children, ages 18, 15 and 10 from three different women.
We are waiting for confirmation from both parties.
Forgiveness in marriage
Just like I posted earlier today, husband and wife are from different backgrounds and were raised by different families with different values. Forgiveness in marriage is an important aspect of every marriage. Infact I will say that three thing makes marriage stronger and they are
1 prayer
2 sex
3 forgiveness.
Forgiveness can help prevent problems from accruing in the married couple's future. Even the bible says in Matt 18:22 that we must forgive people who hurt us seventy times seven times. Remember we offend God at every minutes of the day, yet he always forgive us. At times I hear some couple say they are divorcing because of irreconcilable differences. Many may be going through so much pains or marital issues in their marriage but remember, God hates divorce
Therefore, find it in your heart today to forgive your spouse. Your spouse might not be the perfect man or woman you desire but is your responsibility to make your marriage work. Do not let your kid or kids go through the trauma of growing up in a broken home. May God give u a forgiving heart and help us mend every broken wall in our marriages.
1 prayer
2 sex
3 forgiveness.
Forgiveness can help prevent problems from accruing in the married couple's future. Even the bible says in Matt 18:22 that we must forgive people who hurt us seventy times seven times. Remember we offend God at every minutes of the day, yet he always forgive us. At times I hear some couple say they are divorcing because of irreconcilable differences. Many may be going through so much pains or marital issues in their marriage but remember, God hates divorce
Therefore, find it in your heart today to forgive your spouse. Your spouse might not be the perfect man or woman you desire but is your responsibility to make your marriage work. Do not let your kid or kids go through the trauma of growing up in a broken home. May God give u a forgiving heart and help us mend every broken wall in our marriages.
Randy Couple are Cheered on While Having S*x in Packed Nightclub
A horny weird couple got naked in a packed night club as had s*x while people cheered them on. It's indeed disturbing thing as many believe the world is losing its morals.
The incident happened at a Partisan Club in Russia's Buryatia Republic on Valentine's Day. The couple appear to be drunk before engaging in the act.
The bar, which has an official motto of “What happens in Partisan stays in Partisan”, is no stranger to controversy.
Woman makes a Shocking Claim of how her Husband Sold their Baby for N250, 000.
A 28-year-old Nigerian woman Ijeoma Ndoku, has exposed her Liberian husband, Daniel Barnney who allegedly sold their nine-month old baby, Emmanuel for N250, 000.
According to The Nation, the woman said she started suspecting him last November after his employer informed her about his plans to sell their child and flee to Ghana. She told police operatives in Lagos that he tricked her and fled with the baby in January.
He was however arrested at Mile 2 on February 12, by operatives of the Festac Police Division, for selling the baby to a 43-year-old “barren” woman identified as Ekah Richard for N250, 000.
According to The Nation, the woman said she started suspecting him last November after his employer informed her about his plans to sell their child and flee to Ghana. She told police operatives in Lagos that he tricked her and fled with the baby in January.
He was however arrested at Mile 2 on February 12, by operatives of the Festac Police Division, for selling the baby to a 43-year-old “barren” woman identified as Ekah Richard for N250, 000.
Man Dumps Woman's Body by Road side After She Died in his Bathroom
A man whose guest apparently overdosed inside his residence dragged her body into his garage, loaded it into his Mercedes and dumped it along the side of a central Pennsylvania road on Valentine's Day, authorities and his lawyer said.
Robert Moir told police that 35-year-old Corinne Pena died on his bathroom floor, and he left her body along a road, figuring it would be quickly found and wouldn't decompose because of the low temperatures. He was charged Tuesday with abuse of a corpse.
Moir's attorney, James Bryant, described Pena as a houseguest who "died on him."
Robert Moir told police that 35-year-old Corinne Pena died on his bathroom floor, and he left her body along a road, figuring it would be quickly found and wouldn't decompose because of the low temperatures. He was charged Tuesday with abuse of a corpse.
Moir's attorney, James Bryant, described Pena as a houseguest who "died on him."
Aww! photo of a Nigerian couple who reunited and married in a refugee camp after being separated by Boko Haram
Pictured below are Ibrahim and Hauna in the Minawao camp, Cameroon a day after
their wedding. The couple had planned to wed in Nigeria but when Boko
Haram terrorist attacked their village they fled. They reunited at the
camp and wedded and plan to start a family.Love is a beautiful thing.
Man kills and burries a friend because of a woman
Ondo State Police Command’s detectives have arrested a middle-aged man identified as Moses Alugo, for killing and burying his friend, who allegedly slept with his wife.
Police source said that several neighbours of the deceased had told the man that his wife was usually seen with his best friend, suggesting they were having an amorous affair behind his back.
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